Sugarpill Cosmetics--Buttercupcake

I Need Love!!!...self love

Why be in a relationship if you feel single? Your boyfriend, husband , or significant other is supposed to make you feel special and not like a burden. So many times females settle for less just to be able to say that they have a boyfriend, husband, etc. You cannot make anyone love you. They either truly do or they truly don't. The fact of the matter is he won't love you more if you lose weight, have sex more, cook for him more, do your hair a different way, or dress a certain way. Someone who really loves you loves you for who you are and not for what you can do for them. You should be able to balance each other out. That means 50/50 in the relationship. Nothing more or nothing less. A man should not be what you feel will complete you. So many times us females start off with a low self esteem or self reflection. We don't see the beauty we have or the great things we have to offer. This is one of the reasons we let some of the men that we know mean us no good stick around for so long. Until you come to the realization that you deserve better you will settle for less.